Article 35

Dating is a seemingly daunting process lately.
It’s like the never-ending job interview that I’m 99% sure I’m going to fail.
I’m tired of answering the “so what are you looking for?” question when it’s clearly stated in my profile. I’m also tired of married men contacting me looking for ‘fun’ when I have made it publicly known in my bio that this is NOT something I will entertain. Why do I bother writing a profile if no one reads them? Why am I putting myself out there, being vulnerable and making a solid effort…when I am getting nothing in return?
Unfortunately, it seems like this day in age (in general) people are too lazy to make ANY extra effort. The bare minimum will almost always need to suffice. To me, this is evident when you examine current customer service standards – good service is hard to find! This rings true for relationships as well.
I need someone that will match my effort – not someone that consistently falls short. I need someone that is not afraid to be vulnerable – for this is what true bravery requires. I need someone that is willing to admit their own flaws and embrace them – so that I can do the same. I need someone that is willing to try – even if failure is a possibility. I’m not one to give up…so I dare to dream in a world that so expertly dashes hope.
My advice today? Put in the work and it will eventually pay off. Don’t settle…the ‘status quo’ in 2025 is just not enough.